Wednesday, 8 February 2017

On Death And Ageing.. A Serious Post

In a few months, I'll turn 70. I never thought, or even hoped I'd make it this far, given the events in my life. Recently, I've been reflecting on this. I've noticed that most of my heroes have passed on. Great sportsmen and women, a few politicians, wonderful actors and, most of all dear and valued friends.

At work, I often bore my colleagues with, what I believe to be, funny and wonderful stories about times spent with my, very eclectic, group of friends and acquaintances. I enjoy telling these stories but, upon reflection, I realise these wonderful people are no longer here. I am richer for their being but much poorer for their loss.

Sometimes, it seems like I'm the last man standing. This is a seriously lousy feeling and, at times, I feel like I don't want to carry on.

Fortunately I still have a wonderful shining light in my life. Her name is Kim. She is my wife. Her beauty, honesty and love keep me going, give me the will to create new things and appreciate the good things surrounding me.

So, to my departed heroes, friends and acquaintances I say "Vale" and look forward to new adventures and new friends,